If you have loved dancing your entire life, but found it hard to deal with the ‘show off’ nature of some parties, this article is for you!
As someone who has always loved dancing — who finds joy in rhythm and freedom in movement — I’ve spent years expressing myself through dance (from the dance floors of Cuba, to China, to Kenya, to Mexico and even here in Canada). But deep inside, I always felt something was missing. I didn’t fully understand it until I stumbled into an ecstatic dance circle — barefoot, raw, wild, sacred, held in a retreat that I remember it was called ‘Barefoot Buggie”… I thought it was not going to be ‘my gig’… but boy, oh, boy, was I ever in for a surprise!!

C NOTE BOWL (See the video review)
A C note singing bowl is often associated with the root chakra, the energetic center connected to grounding, stability, and feeling safe in your body and environment. I love using deep C note vibrations during meditation or before bed because the sound creates a calming, anchoring effect that helps quiet an overstimulated nervous system and bring me back into the present moment.
What a pleasant surprise it was to be surrounded not by performers, not by people seeking validation, but by souls genuinely dancing to connect with their essence… and with the music itself. It was meditative. It was healing. It was finally everything I had been looking for in movement.
🌿 Dance as a Spiritual Practice
In the spiritual and wellness world, ecstatic dance has become more than just a trend — it’s a movement. Literally and energetically.
This freeform dance practice, often done without words and without mirrors, invites people to release expectations and drop into the body. The idea is simple: no choreography, no performance — just authentic movement.
My salsa dancing friends don’t get it, because in ecstatic dancing there’s no “wrong” way to move. You follow your breath, your emotions, your heartbeat, your deepest desires… The music becomes a guide, and the dance becomes a prayer. We dance in silence (among each other) because there is so much we are communicating inwards.

📜 A Sacred History: Dance Across Cultures
Ecstatic dance isn’t new. It’s ancient — as old as fire circles and tribal drums. From the whirling dervishes of Sufi tradition to the trance dances of indigenous African tribes, humans have always turned to rhythmic movement to heal, grieve, celebrate, and transcend.
In these traditions, dance was not entertainment. It was medicine.
I have been so lucky to have traveled the world and seen the various forms of expressions there are. They are all right. Everyone dances their own way. Today, this spirit lives on — at festivals, healing retreats, and sacred circles all over the world. When included as part of a wellness retreat, ecstatic dance helps participants shake off stress, process emotions, and reconnect with their inner wild.
🧠 What Science Says About Dance & Mental Health
While the spiritual benefits of dance are powerful, science is catching up too. Here’s what studies say:
- Reduces Cortisol: A 2014 study in the Journal of Positive Psychology found that dance — especially when done freely and expressively — helps reduce cortisol (the stress hormone) and promotes a sense of vitality and joy.
- Releases “Feel-Good” Hormones: Dancing releases endorphins, dopamine, and serotonin — the brain chemicals that make us feel good, connected, and peaceful.
- Improves Brain Function: According to research published in Frontiers in Aging Neuroscience, dance can enhance cognitive flexibility, body awareness, and emotional regulation.
- Supports Trauma Release: Freeform movement allows stored trauma in the body to be gently expressed and released. As Dr. Bessel van der Kolk writes in The Body Keeps the Score, movement-based therapies are vital in healing from deep emotional wounds.
In short: dancing helps us come home to ourselves.

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✨ Ecstatic Dance at Our Wellness Retreats
That’s why at every wellness retreat we host, we include a night of ecstatic dance and beach fire circle. After days of deep chakra work, sound healing, journaling, and meditation, this is where we let go. We integrate. We express. We celebrate.
Some dance with their eyes closed. Some cry. Some laugh. Some scream into the wind. It’s not about being seen — it’s about being felt, by your own body and spirit.
“That night of dancing barefoot under the stars… I felt alive for the first time in years.”
— Wellness Retreat Participant, 2024
“It was the kind of dance I dreamed of as a child. No judgment. Just movement, music, and magic.”
💃 Dance to Heal, Not to Perform
If you’ve ever felt pressure to dance right, to be “good” at it, or to hold back out of fear of being judged… ecstatic dance will liberate you. It’s a chance to move the way your body has always wanted to — free, wild, sacred.
This is what dance was always meant to be.
And when done in community — in a safe, supportive, spiritual space like a retreat — it becomes even more powerful.
Are You Ready to Dance Your Soul Awake?
If you’re longing to feel more grounded, more joyful, more connected to your truth — maybe it’s time to step into the circle.
To let your body speak.
To remember that movement is medicine.
Jocy

Drums for your upcoming event or retreat

Beautiful goddess drum, smaller than in the picture but nice solid sound. Packs well. Not expensive at all.

Turtles are a symbol of patience and love. It represents the pace of our journey, the steps we take towards our goals not needing to be rushed, but needing to be firm and certain… This is a very nice and solid drum. Packs well. Not expensive at all.

This is a very nice and solid drum. Handmade. Made of wood and leather. Small size. Packs well. Not expensive at all.

This is a nice small African Djembe, measuring 9 x 20 inches, crafted from high-quality mahogany. This standard model features a 9.5-inch goat skin drumhead, which contributes to its rich, resonant sound. Its compact size makes it perfect for portable use, allowing musicians to easily pack it for travel or outdoor events. Whether you’re jamming with friends or practicing solo, this djembe is an excellent addition to any percussionist’s collection.

The Mandala Drum
Embrace the mesmerizing artistry of this shaman drum, where wood and leather unite to create a practical and beautiful masterpiece. Its smooth surfaces and comfortable feel generate a clear and resonant sound that will leave you in awe.
Size: 10 inches. Comes with drumming stick, as shown.
Other musical must haves!

Ocean drums are an amazing addition to your meditation session, as they create soothing, rhythmic sounds that mimic the gentle ebb and flow of ocean waves. The unique auditory experience they provide helps to enhance relaxation and deepen your state of mindfulness. By incorporating ocean drums into your practice, you can transform your meditation environment into a serene coastal retreat, allowing your mind to drift peacefully while you concentrate on your breath and intentions.

Tambourines are awesome for beach circles, as they provide an engaging way to accompany songs, fostering a lively atmosphere and encouraging everyone to join in. Their vibrant sound makes for nice percussion rhythms that can elevate the mood and add energy to gatherings, creating a sense of unity among friends and family.

The Gong Lotus Wind Gong 20 Inch is an extraordinary instrument that truly captures the essence of Chinese culture, overflowing with a rich heritage. Meticulously crafted, this stunning Wind Gong arrives with a specially designed Gong Mallet and Hanging String, providing you with everything needed to unleash breathtaking sounds that will mesmerize your audience. Its impressive size empowers this authentic Chinese Wind Gong to generate profound and resonant tones that enchant listeners, enveloping them in a powerful and beautiful auditory experience.

Beautiful table gong
- Size: 8″(H) x 7.5″(L) x 1.75″(D) approx.
- Material: Wood and Copper
- Idea for meditation. Perfect home decor to create Zen environment at home or in office. Good Feng Shui!
Other musical gems – to keep you Zen!

C NOTE BOWL (See the video review)
A C note singing bowl is often associated with the root chakra, the energetic center connected to grounding, stability, and feeling safe in your body and environment. I love using deep C note vibrations during meditation or before bed because the sound creates a calming, anchoring effect that helps quiet an overstimulated nervous system and bring me back into the present moment.

CREATINE (See the video review)
Creatine is one of the most researched supplements in the wellness and fitness world, yet many women still misunderstand its benefits and assume it is only for bodybuilders. During a weight loss journey, creatine can help support muscle preservation, energy levels, recovery, and overall strength, which is incredibly important because maintaining healthy muscle mass helps support metabolism and long-term fat loss in a balanced and sustainable way.

FOOD SCALE (See the video review)
One of the healthiest mindset shifts I made during my wellness journey was learning that using a food scale is not about restriction—it’s about awareness and honesty. Most of us drastically underestimate portion sizes without realizing it, especially with healthy foods that we assume are automatically “safe.” Having a scale helped me stop guessing and start understanding what my body actually needed, without obsessing or starving myself.

MEDITATION CUSHIONS (See the video review)
A C note singing bowl is often associated with the root chakra, the energetic center connected to grounding, stability, and feeling safe in your body and environment. I love using deep C note vibrations during meditation or before bed because the sound creates a calming, anchoring effect that helps quiet an overstimulated nervous system and bring me back into the present moment.
Here are some pictures of our beautiful event in Cuba























What to pack for your trip to Cuba
More information about the Wellness Retreat in Cuba
Favorite spiritual products

This “Gratitude Journal,” offers 100 days of guided gratitude prompts, including counting blessings, writing thank-you letters to your past and present self, and reflecting on moments of joy and appreciation.

Beautiful tapestry for your wall. Amazon has many sizes. A center ornament inspiring meditation and chakra alignment. Perfect art for your livingroom or bedroom. Zen and minimalistic look.

Bring some zen vibes into your home or office with a cute desktop fountain! It’s all about that soothing water sound and the calming feel of a mini waterfall. Perfect for creating a relaxed atmosphere and adding a touch of Feng Shui to your space. Time to bring those indoor chill vibes to your desk or patio!

Third Eye Chakra (A Note): The A note aligns with the Third Eye Chakra, connected to intuition, perception, and spiritual insight. The vibrational frequency of the A note is thought to enhance awareness and deepen spiritual practices.

The addition of a small water feature can significantly enhance the ambiance of a space, creating a tranquil and soothing environment. Whether it’s a tabletop fountain gently bubbling with water, or a serene water wall softly cascading, the gentle sound of flowing water can bring a sense of calm and relaxation to any setting. The sight and sound of water can also add a touch of elegance and natural beauty to an indoor or outdoor space, making it the perfect focal point for a meditation area, garden, or even a living room. Furthermore, the gentle movement and soothing sound of water can contribute to stress reduction and improved well-being, making it an ideal addition to any environment where peace and tranquility are desired.

Meditation Shawl or Blanket, Exotic Shawl/Wrap, Oversize Scarf or Stole. Unisex
How about a cozy meditation shawl or blanket to keep you warm and focused during your mindfulness practice? Or maybe an exotic shawl/wrap to add a touch of mystery and elegance to your outfit. And don’t forget about the versatile oversize scarf or stole that’s perfect for anyone, anytime. These unisex accessories are all about comfort and style, so take your pick and rock that look!
The one I am showing here is pink, but click this link so you can select among a few gorgeous colours.






















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